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Tomorrow Sex Will Be Good Again:Women and Desire in the Age of Consent
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A provocative, elegantly written analysis of female desire, consent, and sexuality in the age of MeToo
Women are in a bind. In the name of consent and empowerment, they must proclaim their desires clearly and confidently. Yet sex researchers suggest that women’s desire is often slow to emerge. And men are keen to insist that they know what women—and their bodies—want. Meanwhile, sexual violence abounds. How can women, in this environment, possibly know what they want? And why do we expect them to?
In this elegant, searching book—spanning science and popular culture; pornography and literature; debates on Me-Too, consent and feminism—Katherine Angel challenges our assumptions about women’s desire. Why, she asks, should they be expected to know their desires? And how do we take sexual violence seriously, when not knowing what we want is key to both eroticism and personhood?
In today’s crucial moment of renewed attention to violence and power, Angel urges that we remake our thinking about sex, pleasure, and autonomy without any illusions about perfect self-knowledge. Only then will we fulfil Michel Foucault’s teasing promise, in 1976, that ‘tomorrow sex will be good again’
Reviews
The real joy lies in the artfulness with which she uses these intimate episodes as a way of unwrapping the larger issue of what it means to be a woman, both object and subject of desire.
Offers an arresting mix of diaristic experiences with her lover . . . and heady reflections from feminist thinkers like Susan Sontag and Virginia Woolf. A genre-busting nonfiction account that reads like poetry, revels in ambiguity, and intentionally defies definition, the book explores the slippery emotions of sex in fiery, collage-like scenes intended to reconcile the contradictory ‘metaphors we love by.'
Ghostly and poetic . . . [A] thinking woman's meditation on sexual desire.
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Unconventional, deeply personal . . . often poetic.
The New Yorker -
Angel embraces the impossibility of extricating fact from feeling.
, The Boston Globe -
One of the most insightful and articulate writers at work today.
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In this impressive and intelligent examination of the father figure, Angel expertly intersects the subject with feminism, mythology, Donald Winnicott, Brett Kavanaugh and more. Her unstinting eye and intellectual vigour make Daddy Issues an engaging interrogation. It feels utterly vital in the context of #MeToo and the political flux the world currently finds itself in.
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An ardent, rigorous, nuanced investigation into the question of consent, at once illuminating and empowering. A truly vital guide to navigating the difficult waters of 21st century desire.
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Thought-provoking ... [Angel's] jargon-free prose and nuanced readings of popular culture and postmodern theory enlighten. Readers will value this lively and incisive inquiry into the sexual dynamics of the #MeToo era.
Publishers Weekly (Starred Review) -
One of our most daring, exciting and nuanced writers on the complexities of female desire, pleasure, autonomy and imagination.
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A provocative counterargument to recent feminist dogma. ... Angel raises intriguing questions about commonly accepted assumptions, and she offers reassurance to female readers.
Kirkus Reviews -
[Tomorrow Sex Will Be Good Again] takes a taboo topic and removes the stigma by providing facts. Its titular refrain advocates for a better tomorrow.
, Foreword Reviews -
[Angel] writes about complex questions with such clarity and elegance, and amid all the polarised spats that currently pass for considered debate, her work is a breath of fresh air. [Tomorrow Sex Will Be Good Again] is a provocative but clear-sighted analysis of female sexuality in the wake of #MeToo ... I'd urge anyone who cares about sexual ethics to read it.
, Caroline Sanderson -
Excellent
, The Guardian -
[A] bible of modern sexuality and consent that all men and women should be reading
Evening Standard -
She is reaching towards something else: a world where desire does not have to be known and fixed in advance to protect people from violence.
, Guardian -
Tenderly inflected and meticulously argued, Tomorrow Sex Will Be Good Again should be required reading
New Internationalist - Five Starred Review -
A clear-eyed intervention in the crossfire of post-#MeToo sexual politics
TANK Magazine -
Voyeuristically fascinating ... Angel dares to suggest that consent is not sexy … we should be aiming for something more complex
, New Statesman -
Offers new ways of understanding the complexity of sexual relations … fresh and provoking
The F-Word -
Exquisite ... A breathtaking, brilliant invitation not to turn away from complexity and vulnerability
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This nonfiction tour-de-force is a must-read for anyone interested in exploring themes of consent, power, sex, and the Me Too movement. This is the kind of book that seeks not to create dichotomous binaries, but to complicate the narrative.
, The Millions -
Eloquent and lucid
, Telegraph -
Succinct and thought-provoking
, Observer -
Tomorrow Sex Will Be Good Again offers readers a blend of cultural criticism and provocative theory.
, Inside Hook -
Intriguing, philosophical.
, Slate -
One of the smartest, most nuanced and thought-provoking books I’ve read about sex in the post-#MeToo era.
, Stylist -
[Angel] is right – consent as a yes/no dichotomy cannot be everything we want it to be. We must recognise that language cannot say everything, especially for women, who have not historically been given the chance to shape it according to their own needs and desires.
The Arts Desk -
[Tomorrow Sex Will Be Good Again is] a necessary contribution to the many conversations about sex and power we have all had since 2017, and Angel’s prose, clear and lovely, nimbly navigates the complexities of her subject matter.
, Bookforum -
A vital and groundbreaking work that brings nuance to a thorny subject.
, Guardian -
Angel has dissected much of what there is to know about consent, desire, arousal and vulnerability: the four cornerstones of sexuality. Resisting definitive and simplistic conclusions, Angel has been wide-reaching in her research
, Irish Times -
Angel not only asks key questions about what women want, but also how we can know what we want.
, Dazed